Article: 63741 of alt.support.depression From: xsxsxs@freeuk.com (DOG) Newsgroups: alt.support.depression Subject: Re: Frightening thought.... Date: 28 Jun 2003 11:40:34 -0700 Organization: http://groups.google.com/ Lines: 21 Message-ID: <3910f684.0306281040.20f2310d@posting.google.com> References: <20030627220746.11524.00001175@mb-m13.aol.com> NNTP-Posting-Host: 172.186.71.15 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=ISO-8859-1 Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit X-Trace: posting.google.com 1056825635 31854 127.0.0.1 (28 Jun 2003 18:40:35 GMT) X-Complaints-To: groups-abuse@google.com NNTP-Posting-Date: 28 Jun 2003 18:40:35 GMT Path: news.meer.net!sea-read.news.verio.net!dfw-artgen!sjc-peer.news.verio.net!news.verio.net!newsfeed.berkeley.edu!ucberkeley!priapus.visi.com!news-out.visi.com!petbe.visi.com!news.maxwell.syr.edu!newsfeed.stanford.edu!postnews1.google.com!not-for-mail Xref: archive.mv.meer.net alt.support.depression:63741 kthompson1013@aol.com (Kim ) wrote in message news:<20030627220746.11524.00001175@mb-m13.aol.com>... > I have been thinking a lot lately about death. About how it is so uncertain and > can strike at anytime. I don't even know why i have been getting upset about > it. Nothing I am aware of has happened recently that would start this thinking > on my part. i think about how old my in-laws are and how they will die oneday. > I think about how my mom is a lot older then I realize sometimes and that > oneday she will be gone. I think about how my dad and I will never reconcile > and he will die oneday without knowing that I do love him but sometimes things > can't be forgotten or forgiven. And I think about how oneday my husband and I > will no longer be together, depending on who dies first............ > > Kim This is all about loss and not-being and is what sits at the bottom of everyones fears. If somesone's frightened then it is because they are afraid of losing something or experiencing themselves in a way that they do not want to (which is loss in in the sense of the not-being what / how one wants to be, must continue to be, etc. which is like a fear of psychological death). xs Article: 63778 of alt.support.depression Newsgroups: alt.support.depression From: Keen@barb.com (Christine) Subject: Re: Frightening thought.... References: <20030627220746.11524.00001175@mb-m13.aol.com> X-Newsreader: News Xpress 2.01 Lines: 19 Message-ID: Date: Sun, 29 Jun 2003 02:55:44 GMT NNTP-Posting-Host: 24.169.90.214 X-Complaints-To: abuse@rr.com X-Trace: twister.nyroc.rr.com 1056855344 24.169.90.214 (Sat, 28 Jun 2003 22:55:44 EDT) NNTP-Posting-Date: Sat, 28 Jun 2003 22:55:44 EDT Organization: Road Runner Path: news.meer.net!sea-read.news.verio.net!dfw-artgen!sjc-peer.news.verio.net!news.verio.net!image.surnet.ru!WWW1.relcom.ru!newshosting.com!news-xfer2.atl.newshosting.com!140.99.99.194.MISMATCH!newsfeed1.easynews.com!easynews.com!easynews!news-west.rr.com!cyclone.nyroc.rr.com!cyclone-out.nyroc.rr.com!twister.nyroc.rr.com.POSTED!53ab2750!not-for-mail Xref: archive.mv.meer.net alt.support.depression:63778 I worry all the time. In the last year I had lost my brother, father, baby bird, miscarriage, my apartment, got cancer. I dont know when it will strike and why are all these things happening to me. Nothing GREAT happens only TRAGIC. In article <20030627220746.11524.00001175@mb-m13.aol.com>, kthompson1013@aol.com (Kim ) wrote: >I have been thinking a lot lately about death. About how it is so uncertain and >can strike at anytime. I don't even know why i have been getting upset about >it. Nothing I am aware of has happened recently that would start this thinking >on my part. i think about how old my in-laws are and how they will die oneday. >I think about how my mom is a lot older then I realize sometimes and that >oneday she will be gone. I think about how my dad and I will never reconcile >and he will die oneday without knowing that I do love him but sometimes things >can't be forgotten or forgiven. And I think about how oneday my husband and I >will no longer be together, depending on who dies first............ > >Kim